Easy Ways to Eliminate Your Fear of Failure
It isn’t failure, but rather, the fear of failure itself that separates us from all of our gifts. What are you currently dreaming of? What are you looking to accomplish? Why is it a must that you see it through? I guess when it comes down to it, that’s all that matters. Why?
I know I love the beautiful pictures. After all, my intent is to make life feel beautiful because it actually is. But beauty isn’t just one thing. It’s whatever you allow it to be. Our fear of failure only gets in the way of it all. When we take a moment to truly think of life’s adventures, our perspectives change.
Why It’s Worth Happening for You
There’s a “secret” to everything in this world when you think about it. There’s The Secret to Success, or even a better one, The Secret to Happiness. My experiences have shown me that, if I want something enough, I’ll find a way. Therefore, despite the bump in the road, I will not allow my fear of failure to overshadow the possibilities of my success.
Everything in life is temporary, you see. The things that show up in our paths are all blessings. We might not always acknowledge them as such, but trust me, they exist. It took me a while. But it wasn’t until I submitted to life’s experiences did it all change. You see, there’s how you want it to look like and there’s how life gives it to you. These two tend to differ. The key is to embrace more so that you enjoy more. Things aren’t always clear, and that’s fine. In due time. Fear of failure is what?
What does this fear of failure mean to you that you may give it all up on behalf of it? Let not the toxic beliefs of others become your beliefs to keep. Our hardships, our temporary limitations, are only the depth of our stories. That’s what gives it meaning, exactly what makes it great.
Have you managed to tap into your why your reason for being? When it comes to myself, I don’t ask for much. Therefore, it’s easier for me to give in as it pertains to myself than to push a little further. But it all changes when the “world is on your shoulders”. It presents the time in which you must push past the “I” so that you get to the “Why”.
Why Fear of Failure is Crippling
I get it. We want it, but we fear not getting it. It makes sense because trying to attain success alone is a journey within itself. It takes an immense of dedication and focus. And along with that a great deal of consistency. Even with it all, there’s that chance it doesn’t happen. When we carry that fear of failure around we prevent ourselves the encounter from life’s best teacher.
No greater teacher exists than the consequences of our mistakes. Let’s be honest, life is about risks. And every single day we wake up, we take a hand full of them. Now I know life is short, and I know many of us believe you only live once (YOLO). But if that is the cause, why not care even more about this lone experience? Why not maximize our experience here during our time here?
Fear? It’s never a way of operating. It’s a temporary mom of doubt thought temporarily prevents us from seeing the end picture. It clouds the vision from its own creator. In other words, you’re unable to see the magic you have the ability to create, too bound by the fear of losing it all.
I had to learn real quick that there was no loss. To have fear of failure is to give up the many lessons that accompany it. Failure isn’t a tool used to measure how we define ourselves. It’s a tool that will aid us in focusing on how we choose to get better. Where we are now and how are we standing in our way? It’s easy to point fingers but much rewarding for taking on the adventure of growth.
Fear of failure is unnecessary, and in most part unproductive. Through many experiments of constant failure came great inventions. Embrace your failures. They’re more valuable than you can ever imagine. My failures have not only made me more confident, but they also made me feel validated. The proof is in the pudding. If you keep on this marathon, you’ll never need to sprint.